The Art of Kissing and Making Out
By Ms. Erin, Clinical Sexologist Let's be honest. Nobody taught us how to kiss. We figured it out through nervous teenage encounters, awkward first dates, and a lot of silent…
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Cyber Sexuality and Finding Pleasure During Economic Hardship: A Sexologist’s Guide
How technology reshapes intimacy, why pleasure skills matter when money's tight, and navigating dating when your bank account is screaming By Ms. Erin Alexander, Clinical Sexologist The Digital Revolution in…
Understanding Sexual Exploitation: Power, Consent, and What We Get Wrong
A clinical sexologist's guide to recognizing exploitation, understanding power dynamics, and why "consent" doesn't exist under coercion By Ms. Erin Alexander, Clinical Sexologist & Advocate for Survivor-Centered Education Why We…
Trading Vanilla for Rocky Road: Why Your Sex Life Deserves an Upgrade ME
Hi there. I'm Ms. Erin, a clinical sexologist and if you've landed on this post, something tells me you've been thinking about this too. Today, I want to talk about…
The Art and Science of Flirting
By Erin A. Alexander, LPC-S, Clinical Sexologist · 7 min read Flirting. The very word conjures images of playful glances, witty banter, and the subtle dance of attraction. As a…
The Power of the Post-Sex Check-In: A Clinical Sexologist’s Perspective
As a clinical sexologist, one of the most common themes I see is couples and individuals struggling to maintain genuine intimacy. We often focus on the before and during of…
Love Languages in Long-Distance Relationships
Long-distance relationships don't fail because of the miles. They fail because of the silence that fills them. When you can't reach across the couch to squeeze your partner's hand, or…
Audience Q&A with Ms. Erin, Clinical Sexologist
You asked. I answered. No filter. Q: Has a client ever said anything inappropriate in a session? A: The word "inappropriate" is tricky in my field, because I work explicitly…
Mismatched Sexual Desires After Years Together
Thirteen years is a long time to build something together. It's long enough to know each other's coffee orders, finish each other's sentences, and navigate every kind of hard thing…
Emotional Safety in Relationships: Why Your Partner’s D&D Obsession Matters More Than You Think
A sexologist's guide to creating safe spaces, polyamory as needs fulfillment, and why not everything has to be about sex By Ms. Erin Alexander, Clinical Sexologist What Is Emotional Safety,…