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5 Things Clients Do That Drive Sexologists Crazy (And How to Be a Better Client)

By Erin A. Alexander, LPC-S, Clinical Sexologist As a relationship coach and clinical sexologist, I've had the privilege of guiding hundreds of couples and individuals toward deeper intimacy, healing, and…

When Agreements Break Down in Consensual Non-Monogamy

Consensually non-monogamous (CNM) relationships and BDSM dynamics thrive on clear communication, established boundaries, and mutual accountability. But what happens when even the most carefully crafted agreements fail to prevent boundary…

The Cheater’s Paradox: Why Relationships Built on Infidelity Rarely Work (A Sexologist Explains)

Welcome to the uncomfortable truth about infidelity that nobody wants to admit: when two people who are actively betraying their partners decide to start a relationship together, they're not beginning…

The Evolution of Pornography: A Sexologist’s Perspective and Contemporary Analysis

The global conversation around pornography has intensified in recent decades, driven by unprecedented digital access, shifting cultural norms, and deeper inquiry into sexual health and ethics. Officially defined as representations…

How to Break Up: A Sexologist’s Guide to Ending Relationships with Dignity

Breaking up is never easy, but doing it poorly can cause unnecessary pain and complicate your path forward. As relationship experts know, a clean, respectful breakup isn't just about ending…

How to Protect Your Privacy Online: Expert Guide to Digital Safety in Relationships

In our hyper-connected world, your most personal moments are just one screenshot away from becoming permanent digital records. Whether you're navigating a new relationship, managing boundaries with an ex, or…

Personal Accountability in Relationships: A Sexologist’s Guide to Building Stronger Partnerships

When relationships face challenges, it's tempting to point fingers. But according to relationship experts and sexologists, the foundation of healthy partnerships lies in something far more powerful: personal accountability. This…

Case Study: Navigating Infidelity Recovery Through a Female Led Relationship (FLR)

Rebuilding trust after infidelity is one of the most complex emotional processes a couple can face. When betrayal disrupts safety, attachment, and identity within a relationship, traditional counseling models are…

The Label I Never Wanted (And the Photoshoot That Changed Everything)

"Pretty." It’s a word that has followed me my entire life. I’ve heard it whispered by relatives, offered up by friends, and declared by strangers. And for as long as…

Masturbation Month And Mental Health Awareness Month

For Penis Owners ● Set the mood, relax, watch porn if you like porn, play music if you like music ● Try different positions, or just use the positions that…