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The Unpredictable Journey of Online Dating: Insights from Erin’s Window

Online dating can feel like stepping into a world full of promise, unpredictability, and, sometimes, frustration. As a clinical sexologist, I often find my professional expertise overlapping with my personal…

The Label I Never Wanted (And the Photoshoot That Changed Everything)

"Pretty." It’s a word that has followed me my entire life. I’ve heard it whispered by relatives, offered up by friends, and declared by strangers. And for as long as…

Why “Opposites Attract” (At First), and Why It Rarely Lasts

The phrase “opposites attract” has long been romanticized in movies, novels, and popular culture. And truthfully, there’s some validity to it, at least in the early stages of attraction. From…

Setting Boundaries on Social Media: A Sexologist’s Guide to Enjoying Digital Life

Social media connects us to the world, but let’s be honest, finding the balance between sharing and safeguarding your well-being is tricky. Ever caught yourself oversharing on Instagram, stuck in…

How to Politely Reject or Move On When Dating App Chemistry Fades

Modern dating often begins with a simple “swipe right,” but not every match leads to lasting romance. Understanding how to handle the inevitable “no match” moments is crucial for healthy,…

The Hidden Toll of Caregiving: Why Family Caregivers Need More Support

By Chelsea Reed-Lahey, M.A., LPC Associate Introduction At Love and Intimacy By Erin, we believe mental health and relational health are deeply interconnected. One of our LPC Associates, Chelsea Reed-Lahey,…

Couple divided by a shattered glass wall, representing hidden relationship intimacy problems.

5 Hidden Relationship Intimacy Problems Every Couple Faces

Most couples go through periods of feeling disconnected or frustrated, often without understanding the cause. Intimacy issues are more common than most think, and facing them together can lead to…

Why You Keep Feeling Insecure in Bed (And 5 Ways to Fix It Fast) By Erin, Clinical Sexologist

Do you ever lie awake worrying about whether you’ll perform well, whether your body looks good enough, or whether your partner is secretly judging you? If so, you’re not alone.…

Masturbation Month And Mental Health Awareness Month

For Penis Owners ● Set the mood, relax, watch porn if you like porn, play music if you like music ● Try different positions, or just use the positions that…

Characteristics of a Healthy Long-Distance Relationship

When working with couples, I ask a series of assessment-related questions that are designed to create a clinical snapshot of the relationship. For example, the first questions correspond to the…